It’s Okay to Want a Parent’s Love (Patreon)

I need a daddy. And by that I mean, I need an older male figure who loves me fiercely, has no desire for me physically and literally just wants me to be safe and happy. I don’t like no whips and chains, I just want a dad.

I used to be very adamant that I didn’t need a father. And now I’m coming to realise whether I needed one or not, I really badly wanted one. I still do. I’m never going to have a father, but I do think there’s healing in being honest about not getting want you want. It’s human to want and it’s human to grieve over not getting what you want.