How do you prefer lewd scenes in games? (Patreon)

Important question!
I'm thinking how should the lewds for Agrss play out and I also just want to get a general idea how people feel about this topic.

How do you feel about lewd games where you have manual control over the lewds?
Like you click a button to make the guy thrust or you can drag the mouse to control the movement, the faster you move the mouse the faster the animation will be.

With the previous builds of Agrss, it just plays the lewd animation and there's text over it.
I think having lines for sex like that feels pretty awkward. It always feels like I'm just trying to write whatever to give enough time for the animation.
People don't actually talk when having sex anyway.
There's also the way of an animation player where you can control which speed is playing. I would still count this as manual/having control.

Which of these do you prefer and why?
Or how do you feel about both of them?